Popular Re-Post. Dingman’s Cabin

Dingmans Cabin (my happy place)

It's the place to go to, even though 

you will never know when it calls. 

The timing is quite random 

although the need is demanding 

and necessary. 

We all need to seek peace; it is not given. 

Go there, be present just you and the walls. 

Even though it seems lonesome,

it is the setting to which you may find the inner solution. 

If the space can speak it can be soothing, 

no guarantees that you will find the truth.

But, one can say in its own way, 

"the walls will hold you up." 

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Mini Posts: Prayer For Humanity/Choose To Be Happy

 

Prayer For Humanity

At this time and place we turn our thoughts and hopes to our civilization.  It's up to all humanity to protect, preserve and improve it's very essence with a consciousness towards everlasting life...

Choose To Be Happy

Each new day is an entry into the log book of life.  The only way to enjoy our ride is to grasp each day with humor in mind.  There can be an upside, a humorous take to whatever befalls us.  Just remember problems, accidents and misunderstandings often are out of our control.  We need to be determined to deal with the issue looking at the bright side.  It's easy to blame oneself but, keep in mind we can also forgive ourselves. Being angry and sad brings the spirit down and choosing happy and cheery, lift's everyone up...

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The Road To No Where

 

Going through our daily obligations, often times there's signs on the road that we either take notice of or choose to ignore. Its these times when we neglect to take action, that sooner or later problems come to light.  There's the minor tooth ache that suddenly disappears and we shrug it off.  Then, a poor report card sign, that say's your child is not doing well in school.  You write it off to one bad marking period.  What happens next, the tooth is a full blow abscess, lots of pain and angst. You receive a call from school, your child is failing out. As we drive down the road of life, take heed of the sign posts along the way. For you may find yourself suddenly acquainted with, the endless road to nowhere. 

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In One Ear, Out The Other

 

There are many instances where this proverb stands out in anyone's mind.  The two glaring instances are,in the work place and at home with our headstrong adolescents. At work, this circumstance becomes evident while training or explaining policy, to a new or long term staff member.  You can see that either they don't get it, or won't get it.  It's more than obvious by  their attitude or non-compliance.  Either way...the in and out adage applies.  The adolescent, almost always is at the, "I know it all", stage in their life.  They of course know better and have their own way of doing things.  As we're trying to teach or correct behavior, chances are it's rough sailing trying to get through. Facial expressions, grunts and groans are the norm.  After painstakingly putting forth your best effort, you remain hopeful but, there's a good chance it went, "In one ear, out the other."

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All's Well That End's Well...

 We're all programmed for immediate results, quick and decisive answers.  Instant gratification so we can process the information and then on to the next move.  But, unlike fast food, ATM's, and text messaging, waiting and thinking for a while can make a huge difference in a persons life.  Postponing that trip due to low funds and deciding to wait and save more for the trip, is a worth while delay.  Giving a spouse or partner space and time alone when needed, instead of putting forth an ultimatum is very wise call. We need to trust our gut more often, and take a honest and thoughtful look at the circumstances. Checking in with a loved one or confidant is a necessary ingredient, to obtain the best outcome.

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Offer A Helping Hand

It doesn't cost much to make time to help someone. There's a huge upside to giving a person some needed advice and support, that calms the immediate stress, and offers solutions to a dark time period.  It barely interferes with our lifestyle, to donate time or money to an individual in crisis.  It may impact the situation to a point of neutralizing distress, that leads to possibly less anxiety and creates a hopeful future. Just the act of reaching out and showing concern can give a person encouragement and strength to heal and reclaim their life. 

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Dueling Conversations...(the one up dialogue)

 

Sometimes holding a conversation can be challenging. Its very hard  when in a delicate discussion. Then it can turn cumbersome because during the exchange of words, it elevates to a "one up," dialogue. One person whether on purpose or in a competitive mindset, try's to surpass the other with a story of greater merit or accomplishment. It can be very unsettling to follow and enjoy. Right after this battle begins, one can easily turn off and retreat to another place. It's more interesting to converse with the intent of sharing and enjoying each others worldliness, without the impression of being boastful...

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